Dr Parul Bhandari
- Bye-Fellow, Director of Studies (HSPS) and Associate Tutor at St Edmund's College
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Parul Bhandari is a Bye-Fellow, Director of Studies (HSPS), and Associate Tutor at St. Edmund's College. She completed her MPhil (2009) and PhD (2014) at the Department of Sociology, University of Cambridge and BA (Hons) and MA in Sociology from Delhi University.
She was an Associate Professor of Sociology at O.P. Jindal Global University (JGU), India, and has held Guest Faculty positions at the Indian Institute of Technology (IIT), Delhi and the Department of Sociology, Delhi School of Economics (DSE), University of Delhi, and visiting scholar positions at the Institute of Asian and African Studies, Humboldt University, Berlin, and the Centre of South Asian Studies (CSAS), University of Cambridge. She conducted her post-doctoral research fellowship at the Centre de Sciences Humaines (CSH), Delhi (the South Asia research unit for the CNRS) and is an Honorary Fellow at the Centre for Multilevel Federalism (CMF), Institute of Social Sciences, Delhi.
Bhandari’s research interests lie in the study of class (elites and the middle class), gender, family, marriage, love and intimacies in contemporary South Asia.
Bhandari’s books include Dissent with Love: Ambiguity, Affect and Transformation in South Asia (ed) (Routledge, 2024), Matchmaking in Middle Class India: Beyond Arranged and Love Marriage (Springer, 2020), Money, Culture, Class: Elite Women as Modern Subjects, (Routledge, London 2019), and Exploring Indian Modernities: Ideas and Practices (co-edited) (Springer, 2018)
Research
Research interests
- Elites
- Gender
- Love
- Marriage
- Family Relationships
Bhandari's research interests fall into broadly two categories:
- studying class inequalities from a top-down perspective (elites). Her focus specifically is on the gendered dynamics of elite life-worlds, geographies of inequality (residence, public spaces), consumption practices, and social and secret lives of money;
- researching love, marriage, and family in contemporary India. Here, she focuses on desires and gender asymmetries in intimacies, love, and marriage, use of digital media (matrimonial websites, dating apps), gendered violence in romantic relationships, and construction of class identities through choice of spouse.
Research Groups and Affiliations
Member of the BSA study group on elites.
Publications
Books
- Bhandari, Parul ed. (2024) Dissent with Love: Ambiguity, Affect and Transformations in South Asia. Routledge: New Delhi.
- Bhandari, Parul (2020) Matchmaking in Middle Class India: Beyond Arranged and Love Marriage. Springer: Singapore, New Delhi.
- Bhandari, Parul (2019) Money, Culture, Class: Elite Women as Modern Subjects. Routledge: London.
- Choukroune Leïla and Parul Bhandari ed. (2018) Exploring Indian Modernities: Ideas and Practices. Springer: Singapore, New Delhi.
Journal Articles and Papers
- Bhandari, Parul (2026) Gender, Elites and Marriage in India. Sociology Compass 20 (4). https://doi.org/10.1111/soc4.70185
- Bhandari, Parul (2023) Lived Reality of Elite Neighbourhoods: Geographies of Inequality in Delhi. Contemporary South Asia. 31 (1). 36-50.
- Bhandari, Parul (2020) Gendered Impact of COVID-19 in Indian Federalism Perspectives (IFP-4) paper series. Institute of Social Sciences, New Delhi.
- Bhandari, Parul (2020) Pre-marital Relationships and Violence: Experiences of Working Middle Class Women in Delhi in Sen, Kaur, and Zabiliute (ed) (En)Countering Sexual Violence in South Asian City, in Gender, Place and Culture. 27 (1). 13-33
- Bhandari, Parul (2017) Pre-Marital Relationships and the Family in Modern India in Parul Bhandari and Fritzi-Marie Titzmann (ed) Changing Family Realities in South Asia in South Asia Multidisciplinary Academic Journal (Issue 16).
- Bhandari, Parul and Fritzi-Marie Titzmann (2017) Introduction: Family Realities in South Asia: Adaptations and Resilience in Changing Family Realities in South Asia (ed) by Parul Bhandari and Fritzi-Marie Titzmann in South Asia Multidisciplinary Academic Journal (Issue 16).
- Bhandari, Parul (2017) Towards a Sociology of Elites: Marriage Alliances, Vulnerabilities, and Resistance in Bollywood in Society and Culture in South Asia, Vol 3, Issue 1.
Book Chapters
- Bhandari, Parul. 2026. "Being a Good Rich Housewife: Religion, Family, and the Indian Business Elites", in María Luisa Méndez, Mike Savage, and Annette Lareau (eds), The Oxford Handbook of the Sociology of Global Elites, Oxford Handbooks (Oxford University Press: New York, Oxford), pp 179-191. https://doi.org/10.1093/9780197780343.003.0012.
- Bhandari, Parul. 2026. “Mythical Love and Conjugality in Everyday Life: Gender and Politics in India” in Pushpendra (ed) India's Social Landscape: Contestations, Resistance, and Transformation. (Routledge: London and New Delhi) Chpt 3 pp 47-62.
- Bhandari, Parul. 2024. “Locating Friendship in Family: Study of Indian Elites” in Anuja Agrawal (ed) Family Studies (Oxford University Press: New Delhi) pp 211-230.
- Bhandari, Parul. 2020. “An Absent or Present Family? Tracing Bollywood Films from the Turn of the Century” in Nadja-Christina Schneider and Fritzi-Marie Titzmann (ed) Family Norms and Images in Transition: Contemporary Negotiations of Reproductive Labour, Love and Relationships in India (Nomos: Baden- Baden). Pp 75-93.
- Bhandari, Parul. 2019. “The Secret Lives of Money: Locating Elite Women of India” in Jodhka and Naudet (ed) Mapping the Elite: Power, Privilege and Inequality in Contemporary India. (Oxford University Press: New Delhi). Pp 274-300.
- Bhandari, Parul. 2014. “In Quest of Identity: Student Culture in a Religious Minority Institution” in Meenakshi Thapan (ed) Ethnographies of Schooling in Contemporary India. Sage: New Delhi. Pp 182-224
Book Reviews
- Bhandari, Parul. 2021. The Caste of Merit: Engineering Education in India by Ajantha Subramanian in Contributions to Indian Sociology 55 (1). 140-159.
- Bhandari, Parul. 2021. Marriage and its Discontents: Women, Islam, and the Law in India by Sylvia Vatuk in South Asia Multidisciplinary Academic Journal. 12th January.
- Bhandari, Parul. 2019. The Making and Meaning of Relationship in Sri Lanka by Mihirini Sirisena in Contemporary South Asia 27(4), 571-572.
- Bhandari, Parul. 2019. Marrying in South Asia: Shifting Concepts, Changing Practices in a Globalising World by Rajni Palriwala and Ravinder Kaur in Indian Journal of Gender Studies 26 (1-2): 224-227.
- Bhandari, Parul. 2015. Forgotten Friends: Monks, Marriages, and Memories of Northeast India by Indrani Chatterjee in Contributions to Indian Sociology, 49 (1): 118-120.
- Bhandari, Parul. 2015. The Right Spouse: Preferential Marriages in Tamil Nadu by Isabelle Clark-Decès in The Journal of Royal Anthropological Institute 21, 927-961.
Media Articles
- Made in Heaven: Capturing the Changing Facets of our Marriages. The Hindustan Times (28th August 2023)
- Panelist on “In Cold Blood: No Nation for Women?”. We the People, New Delhi Television (NDTV), India. (19th February 2023)
- How violent abuse of girlfriends and partners often hides behind the language of romance. Scroll.in (30th November 2022)
- Parallel Mothers: Of war, loss, trauma and womanhood. The Hindustan Times (24th March 2022) Podcast on Big fat Indian weddings
- Covid-19 lockdown has brought joys of old friendships into focus – and the pain of wilted ones Scroll.in (1st August 2021).
- Thinking Beyond Love and Arranged Marriages The Hindustan Times (1st August 2021)
- On Amrita Sher-Gill’s Birthday, a closer look at the women in her paintings Scroll.in. (30th January 2021)
- Radio interview, “Matchmaking in Contemporary Indian Society” Australia’s Travel Writer’s Radio Show (27th August 2020)
- Panel discussion on “Indian Matchmaking: Why Has it Sparked Such Strong Debate” Al Jazeera, The Stream (26th August 2020)
- Radio interview “Looking for love in the Indian Diaspora”, Krys Boyd’s Think, NPR Dallas. Also available as a podcast. (11th Aug
- Matchmaking Illustrates the ills of Indian society The Hindustan Times. (22nd July 2020)
- Art of Solitude: These three painters are more relevant now than ever before Scroll.in (5th May 2020).
- The coronavirus lockdown is putting urban Indian couples to test Scroll.in (12th April 2020)
- How the injuries of modern love are redefining India’s ideas of traditional marriage Scroll.in (14th February 2020)
- Parasite: A Defining Film on Class Relations, Inequality. The Hindustan Times (11th February 2020)
- Between Love and Marriage, lies Matchmaking.” The Tribune. (9th February 2020).
- Birkin bags and Swiss ski resorts: How super-rich Delhi wives want to be part of global elite TheConversation. 8th January. Repr
- Why most elite married women of Delhi prefer gurus over temples or gods ThePrint. (22nd December 2019).
- Of Affection and Consumption: the New Celebrity Culture. Criticalcollective. (13th November 2019).
- What Their Big Fat Auli Wedding Revealed about ….Indian Elites Scroll.in (30th June 2019)
- A Wharton Graduate Marrying a Tree…. ThePrint. (31st March 2019)
- Curated to be Globally Indian Scroll.in. (6th December 2018)
- Schooled for the Big Day” documentary on Indian weddings and ‘grooming’ schools for women, for Channel News Asia (CNA) (October
- Does Technology Change the Way We Fall in Love?” BBC Worldservice ‘Crowdscience’ (24th November 2017)
- Inside the Big, Fat Indian Wedding: Conservatism, Competition and Networks. TheConversation. (13th January 2017)
- Inside India’s Elite Kitty Parties. Quartz (22nd January 2017)
Teaching and supervision
- Supervisor for SOC1, SOC9, SOC10
- Part of teaching team (lectures and seminars) for SOC9, SOC10